• Just Some Thoughts

    This is why you feel like a fraud…

    You’re over thinking things. Start small and just do something. And know you’re not alone when you feel like hiding. There’s even a word for getting in your own way: Akrasia. Recognize it and don’t let it defeat you. If you’re enjoying this blog, please feel free to show some love by leaving a tip, just click Paypal.me/DaraGirard (it goes to “Ilori Press” but don’t worry, I’ll still get it) Your support keeps me going. Thanks! © 2016 Dara Girard; Image copyright © 2016 by 123rf/serhii vasiutin My latest non-fiction title, 10 Things to Forget: to be Creatively Free was a blast to write. On this blog, I’ve been writing on topics that…

  • Things to Forget

    Forget Shoulda-Woulda-Coulda

      “But those woulda-coulda-shouldas all ran away and hid from one little Did.” Shel Silverstein Ah, if only that were always true, but sometimes it’s not. “You shoulda done this.” “I coulda done better.” “I woulda if I had the time.” Sound familiar? These statements usually pop up after someone has taken a risk to do something and stand by it. They like to point out the mistakes and the wasted possibilities.

  • Things to Forget

    Forget Being an Employee

    Every man must decide for himself whether he shall master his world or be mastered by it. James Cash Penny You are self-employed. I don’t care if someone else signs your cheques or deposits money into your bank account. I don’t care if you clock into a day job (or three). I don’t care if someone plans out most of your day and gives you tasks to accomplish by a certain deadline. You’re still self-employed because you’re the CEO of your life—your relationships, your career, your health.

  • Books

    New Book Bundle

      Return of the Black Stockings Society Bundle The first three books in the popular Return of the Black Stockings Society series is now available in one fun volume!

  • Things to Forget

    Forget Having One Identity

    The thing is most people are afraid to step out, to take a chance beyond their established identity. Demi Moore Remember when you were a kid and you said I want to be a ballerina, a skydiver and a teacher? You didn’t? That’s okay. You still can. You can be many things. Maybe not all at once but you have a lifetime to discover all that you can do.